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Inches short of a disaster

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Hi,
This morning a terrible thing happened to me. I was going to a friend's to take her mum to the airport, with my 4 yr old on board. At around 10:45 I was standing at the traffic light facing the Polish embassy to the EU/ING bank, right next to the Jules César tram stop, intending on turning left (no other options there). A car squeezed in on my right, a very unwise thing to do but I had to take it into account as it had right priority over me in case of a problem, so I decided to clear as much space for it as possible as the light turned green. My car was quite a bit taller than that other car and I couldn't see it very well. I was so preoccupied with my intention to turn the shortest possible that I didn't pay attention to the people crossing over at the green pedestrian light by the tram stop. A man with two small children (one in pushchair) was in the middle of it right then, and I managed not to hit them but only just. My car stopped inches from them. I was in shock, and so was the man (probably a Briton). He started screaming and through himself on my bonnet, bashing it with his hands. I couldn't move or breathe or even blink, I was like in outer space. When finally they were safe on the pavement, I pulled off like in a cloud of thick fog. I only had to go another 50 metres or so to the apartment block so I somehow made it and sat there for another 10? 15? minutes, totally unable to move.
I am aware of the kind of comments I am likely to get but my intention here is to present my deepest apologies to this man to whom I didn't say anything, I didn't even make a sign or a wave. I am a careful driver and a mother (and a pedestrian too), and I understand all too well what he went through at that instant and what he probably feels now after it all happened. I just wanted to say I AM SORRY!!!

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lovelorn Jul 16, 2012 12:31

Main thing is, it didnt happen - what could have. Better to focus on that. We've all been there or will be. you will learn from it. But just focus on the positive aspect of it which is that all is well. Good luck with Dad - he might report it - but thats better than having to deal with the unthinkable;

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